How the Akashic Records Can Help with Boundaries
The Akashic Masters remind us that maintaining boundaries is a powerful form of self-care, even when we encounter someone we believe needs our help. When we give more to others than we do to ourselves, it prevents us from acting as our true selves. And this impacts our ability to participate in the creation of the New Earth.
Boundaries and the Akashic Records
It can be an uphill battle to identify the areas where we need to develop boundaries. Staying true to what we know is best for us, especially with those close to us or people who tug at our heart strings, can be difficult. But the anger we feel toward ourselves when we fail is harmful.
Many times, the struggle to maintain boundaries we spent so much time creating is rooted in our past lives. Whether it’s karma, vows that are no longer relevant or even the origin of a pattern that we’ve carried through multiple lifetimes, the Akashic Records can free you of the frustration that comes with breaking a promise to yourself.
Why past lives matter
Denise was very upset when she reached out. “I can’t stand to see anyone suffer,” she
admitted. “So, I take on the responsibility of fixing whatever it is. From bringing home
feral kittens when I was a kid to hiring some of the unhoused for small jobs. But they
always end up begging to be paid something in advance because of a phone bill that’s
due or the fact that they’re hungry. I give them some money and they don’t come back.”
She told me about the latest incident, and then said, “I’ve given the same people
chance after chance. I don’t know why I do it. It always ends up costing me double or
triple because I have to call a professional.”
After chatting a bit more, we said one of the Akashic Access Prayers I’ve received from
the Record Keepers, and opened her Akashic Records. Immediately, we saw her as a
young girl walking through the town square. She noticed a beggar and was about to
give him the coin she had in her purse when her mother grabbed her hand and pulled
her away. “You mustn’t pay them any mind,” she scolded.
When they got home, Denise overheard her mother talking to her aunt. “I can’t believe
they let him out of prison,” her mother said. “I thought you were in debtor’s prison until
you paid your debt. You should have seen her, drawn to him like a moth to a flame. I
practically had to drag her away from him.”
The story Denise had been told since she was old enough to understand was that her
father had died in the war. Her mother heralded him as a hero, and they had a blurry
photograph of him in a frame on the mantle. The betrayal was overwhelming and when she was a year or two older, she snuck out of the house every chance she got to search for her father.
Sometimes she found him begging outside the shops. Others, drinking whiskey down by
the river with other unshaven men wearing torn coats and dirty pants. She always gave
him whatever money she’d scrounged up from home. Denise tried to explain to him that she was his daughter, but even in the rare moments when he wasn’t drunk, he didn’t seem to understand.
A few days before her wedding, she went on the hunt again to find him, only to be told
by a man with no teeth that he had died. She fell to her knees and wept. The guilt of not
trying to find him more often overwhelmed her and she vowed to always help those in
need, no matter how much it appeared they didn’t deserve it.
When we closed her Akashic Records, Denise was crying. “I know it sounds like I’m
sad,” she said, “But I’m just so relieved to understand why I do what I do. And to
understand that there is no need for me to continue to hurt myself in an effort to help
others.”
We talked about her mother’s decision to lie to her about her father. “Was that even my
father in the picture?” Denise questioned. When she had moved through what she
initially saw as betrayal, she began to understand that there was no way her mother
could have told her the truth. “It would have been impossible for her to walk it back
when we ran into him that day.”
After discussing the connection between this vow and her behavior in this life, we
prayed for the dissolution of the promise and for Denise to be released from the heavy
price she’d paid for bringing it with her into this lifetime.
The value of healing past life experiences
Several months later, she reached out. “It’s not been the easiest thing,” she said. “There
is a big part of me that still feels sorry for some of the guys I’ve paid before. But I know
now what’s going to happen and I’m not ignoring the reality anymore. I had to constantly
remind myself that I didn’t need to break my boundaries to get what I needed and when
I had some things I wanted to move into my storage unit, I used TaskRabbit. They
showed up on time and got the job done in less than two hours.”
It’s so easy to give in to old behavior, to break our own boundaries because of some
invisible force insisting that this one time won’t hurt. But it does hurt us. And every time
we allow our boundaries to be breached, whether it’s us doing it to ourselves or
someone else, the easier it is for it to happen again. In order for the New Earth to rise,
we must enforce the self-care we’ve decided is necessary for us. Regardless of the pull
to repeat our patterns.
Exploring your Akashic Records is one way to get to the root of those patterns that
cause us to break our boundaries. In June, I’m offering Access Your Personal
Wisdom Course I, which introduces you to your own Akashic Records so you can ask
questions about your life and gain the clarity and insight you seek. If this is of interest,
register here now because seats go quickly!
You can also schedule a session with me where we delve into your Akashic Records
together. Whether you’re looking for general guidance or have a specific issue you want
to address, the Akashic Masters will show you the experiences in your past lives that
need to be addressed in order to live the life you truly want.
A third option is meditation, which is often helpful in supporting your intentions around boundaries. This month I’m offering my Rainbow Shield meditation at no cost. Simply click the link and download this powerful and simple course that will empower you to be to have strong boundaries that keep you healthy.
If I can be of service in any other way, please reach out.
Until next time…
PRAYER TO CLEAR OTHER PEOPLE’S ENERGY
Mother, Father, Goddess, God,
please assist me in clearing and releasing all outside
energies that are in my body, aura and energy field.
Please send them back to the person
from whom they came, or send them to the Divine
Source to be recycled for the highest good of all.
I am filled with my purest energy &
highest vibration I can now hold.
So It Is. Blessed Be.
PRAYER TO CLEAR ENTITIES & ENERGY PATTERNS
I call upon Archangel Michael and his Legions alongside the
Akashic Beings of Light and Divine Source.
Please surround me with your Light and Love.
Keep me protected and safe as I order the release and
clearing of all energies, interferences, thoughts,
feelings, patterns, programming
and imprinting across all time and space,
in all dimensions and levels and
all places and planes that are not in alignment
with my Highest and Best Akashic Blueprint.
